By PrettyPowerTools

Let me introduce you to a sweet, yet kinky new love of mein. Fraulein Kink is a German-based company that has taken a feminine eye into the realm of bondage. Over the last year I’ve seen quite a few brands come out with some kinky-yet-kind products to appeal to women. Some were hardly worth paying for and some really weren’t secure in terms of binding. Good news for us; those products aforementioned aren’t being carried in these great shops that I surround myself with. Fraulein Kink, on the other hand, is. As soon as I saw that they were available at Trystology I had to decide which of the styles that I needed most.

The Fraulein Kink line consists of well-giftable collars or cuff sets. There are MANY styles offered in combination sets or individually. The colors that I went with were ultra-femme. Usually I would let my dark side take over and go with some seductive blacks or reds. Apparently, my choosing of Spoil Me led me to believe that I am tapping into my sweet-side. This cuff set is also really close to my wedding colors so it means that it’s just that much more perfect for me. These cuffs are awesome to wear as a set when you dress up and go out. You could just wear one individually, also. After the end of the day all you have to do is hand your lover the chain as a means of surrender. He or she can then hook the chain to each of your sexy cuffs and then use any modality of tease to get the juices flowing. If you’re really into the experimental bondage, you could just chain or be chained and then pull out some sensation tools to really experience the non-sexual gratification of bondage or kink. (I say “experimental” because I would only recommend this set of cuffs for a beginner or for light activity because they are a gentle/sensual set.). Now, as for that light activity…you can try household objects that give off different scrapes, pokes, caresses and etc. One really fun thing to try would be pouring hot wax onto your lover. (Not suggested for the faint of skin). The fun can be created, shared, mixed up and completely redone. It’s up to you and your taste and tolerance.

The cuffs are made of a lot of delicate materials. After having studied my set, I would say that the interior is padded and lined with marabou, there is an inside layer of lace, the ruffles are probably made of wide satin strips and the exterior band of light pink looks like velvet ribbon. So sweet! Now, the chain, I would call it a rose gold color and it has quite a good length to it. The extra inches give you the ability to use your hands a little more and it doesn’t make you feel so claustrophobic if it’s your first time. The clasps are very unique! I’ve never seen any like them, which I think is really cool. You have to press the buttons on the receiving side to let the male part in, then when you let go of the buttons, it locks the male side into place. There is no clicking or anything. Also near the cuff clasp is a hang tag that says “Kink” in a pretty type.

My Spoil Me cuffs fit just perfectly and they are a beautiful addition to my kink collection. I like to pull them out during foreplay because we don’t mingle too intensely at that time. I don’t want to hurt my frilly cuffs. My favorite thing to do with them (other than just taking them out in public) is to have them on with the chain linking them and use the suggestively during oral sex. When my husband is going down on me; I love to take both sides of his head and guide him. He knows when he has hit the right spot because the chain starts to come down on the back of his neck a little harder. It is so hot just to think about it! And the great thing about playing with these cuffs is that extra length in the chain. You can’t play like that with cuffs that have a tiny chain. Another suggestion is for sex – if you’re careful, you can use them in the same way during intercourse. (Just make sure that your bodies aren’t too far apart) if you’re thin and agile, unlike myself, haha…you can be on your back with your legs up and have then chain under your legs while he penetrates from a semi-missionary fashion. Another fun thing to do would be to have your arms spread apart over your head and have him make love to you while your wrists are pinned down on the bed. Oh la la!