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Top Sexy Valentine’s Gifts

What to get your Lover for Valentine’s Day

Sometimes it can be challenging choosing a gift for your loved one (or yourself!), and during Valentine’s it can be especially difficult.  Focused on love, passion and sex, it’s so much easier to choose chocolate and flowers… but why not make your Valentine’s REALLY sexy!

Trystology has compiled the Top Sexy Valentine’s Gifts for Individuals and Couples!

Here goes:We-Vibe Classic App Bluetooth

  1. The number one COUPLES gift is a We-Vibe Classic.  This wonderful tool is great for sharing the vibe during lovemaking, and it’s great for foreplay, solo play and outside the bedroom, with it’s  Bluetooth and remote control!  What we don’t talk about is that it’s also good for stroking the penis, and great for girl on girl play! At $149 it’s waterproof, rechargeable, remote controlled and quiet!  AWESOME Gift.
  2. The Rechargeable Palm Power is fast becoming the toy of choPalmpower Rechargeableice for COUPLES and INDIVIDUALS!  It’s one of the most powerful, petite, wand style toys available today, and it has the ability to switch out the attachments, which can vary from body massagers, to clitoral stimulators, to g-spot stimulators, and rabbit-style attachments.  The versatility of this product is so wonderful!  It can easily be used for lovemaking due to no cord,  it’s powerful vibe, the interchangeable heads, and the ability to use the handle to reach places, it’s also an incredible body massager.  At $86 for the Palm Power Rechargeable, and $20-28 for the attachments, this is one versatile toy for men and women!Womanizer Pro
  3. Third on the list of Sexy Valentine’s gifts is this toy for WOMEN.  The Womanizer has taken the country by storm, and as an effective toy for achieving an orgasm, what woman wouldn’t be thrilled with this gift this holiday!?!?  The Womanizer is a suction oriented toy that is placed over the clitoris and has touchless, suction technology.  It has shown to give a woman an orgasm in less than a minute, though depending on the day, can take 1-3 min… but usually not that long!  When women are hardwired to have orgasms in 20-40 min, this toy defies logic and is a great tool for achieving An Orgasm A Day!  For more information regarding choosing between the Womanizer Pro and Womanizer W100, see our previous blog
  4. Hot Octopuss Pulse DuoThe Pulse Duo (and it’s cousin the Pulse Solo) are on our list for the 4th Sexiest Valentine’s gift this season!  Pulse Duo is great for COUPLES, while the Solo is great for MEN.  The Guybrator as it is called, is a pulsating toy and has a pulse plate the massages the frenulum. Whether using this for stroking, or simply placing on the penis, this toy can take a man from flacid to hard, and assist with achieving an orgasm.  The Duo is silicone coated, and a woman can straddle it while her partner uses it, and there is a remote control for the toy to take it from low to high pulsation.  This is certainly an awesome toy for both couples and for men alone.
  5. Hawthorne Lifestyle SwingWhen looking at a GREAT Sexy gift for Valentines, we would be remiss in overlooking one of our TOP Sexy Valentine’s gifts, the Hawthorne Lifestyle Swing.  It is one of THE BEST sex swings available on the market, and is not only comfortable, easy to install and use, it is completely adjustable.  The soft cushion seat, and the easy adjusters make this an amazing choice for COUPLES for Valentine’s. Whether you use it for traditional face to face, or go with Doggie Style, you can also both be on the swing at the same time, or 2 or more can enjoy this swing… so many options.  And then again, you can sit comfortably in it an watch TV or read a book!  Hey, it’s versatile!
  6.  The Lelo Ina Wave iLelo Ina Waves still the HOTTEST Rabbit style toy we have today!  With its “assertive” Rabbit arm and the ability forLelo Ina Wave high-high or low-low vibration, AND the fact that it can either be rigid or create a “come hither” wave motion, the Lelo Ina Wave has proven it’s an amazing FEMALE toy for SOLO or COUPLES play!  It has 10 pleasure settings and is Waterproof, Rechargeable and fairly quiet.  This toy aims to please!  It is also qualified to be in the An Orgasm A Day category, due to its ease in assisting women on achieving an orgasm.
  7. Crave Vesper Rose GoldCrave Vesper is tops on our list of SEXY Valentine’s gifts for it’s completely discrete, jewelry like presentation (in Gold, Rose Gold and Silver) and yet it is a wonderfully powerful 4 speed vibrator!  The metal casing is wonderful for sensory play, so it can be chilled or heated, and when used on high, the toy itself heats up and adds to the vibration sensation for a wonderful combination.  Priced between $79 and $149, the Crave Vesper is an amazing tool to Empower Women to Own Their Sexuality… what better gift can one give to a woman?  Great for SOLO or COUPLES!  Don’t be afraid to wear it every day.  It’s super hygenic, and hey… you don’t have to tell anyone what it is.  It’s that discrete.
  8. UberlubeUberlube is our #1 selling product in the store, because it can be used for massaging, lovemaking, and for so many other uses… hair smoother, under makeup, chaffing… you name it, Uberlube can do it.  Whether its for SOLO or COUPLES, Uberlube, with its no scent, no taste, silicone and Vitamin E, this lubricant enhances the relationship by encouraging more touch… more play!  At $16 and $28, as well as $14 Good To Go Travel packs, Uberlube is a great Gift for him or her.
  9. Je Joue has joined the bandwagon with a series of Bluetooth enabled toys, and we’ve added the Je Joue Nuo to the list of SEXY Valentine’s because anal play is one of our top categories and vibrating anal toolJe Joue Nuo blacks aJeJou Nuo 2re SOOO popular!  The Je Joue Nuo does not discriminate on HIM or HER… so whoever is interested, this toy is for them!  It’s made of platinum grade silicone, and has a number of incredible sensations which are easy to navigate with the Je Joue App… High to low vibration, as well as various pulsations.  The Nuo is fun for use outside the bedroom, as well as during lovemaking!
  10. Last but not least, we have the edible category, and what Sexy ValentinBijoux Indescretes La Poeme Body Painte would be complete without adding a little edible chocolate!  The Bijoux Indescretes Poeme is not only a really pretty gift, it’s delicious.  Imaging you take out the soft silicone tipped feather, and dip it into the yummy Chocolate (or Strawberry, Caramel, Frozen Yogurt or Cherry!) and simply write, draw or paint on your partner… what you do next is your choice!  Bijoux Indescretes is one of our favorite vendors for all things Sexy… and all things edible!  Don’t miss out on other items by Bijoux Indescretes you might be able to add to your collection!

Trystology hopes your Valentine’s is as Sexy as you are… and that you enjoy and explore our Top Sexy Valentine’s in store or online.

Womanizer Pro Vs. Womanizer W100

When I first was introduced to the Womanizer, I thought, REALLY?!?!?  That little suction device can give a woman an orgasm?  Well, we all know from my previous blog, it can, and does!  It has even qualified to be among the few toys I recommend for “An Orgasm A Day” due to its ease of use, and quick results!

So the question is, now that the Womanizer Pro has arrived on the scene (officially the Womanizer W500) how do I choose?

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Womanizer Deluxe W500 Womanizer Pro Deluxe

First of all, let’s look at the Womanizer Pro, and see what it’s benefits are.

  1. It’s smaller that the Womanizer W100
  2. It has a lower suction setting, and higher suction settings than the W100, 8 power levels total
  3. It has two different, interchangeable heads, to accommodate different size clitoris.
  4. The power levels are on the backside of the product, vs. the frontside.
  5. The manufacture touts the product to be silent, however I have not found that to be the case.

Womanizer W100 Womanizer Pro W100

Things to consider:

  • Clearly it’s smaller than the Womanizer W100, which can be a plus and a minus.  It fits into the hand nicely, however it doesn’t have the “reach” that one might think they might need to reach the clitoris.  When considering the choice between the two, one needs to consider their body type, and if the additional reach will be an important factor in the decision making.  Also, having the control on the front of the W100, could be more convenient for those needing the reach, because you are able to use your thumb easily, and not have to reach toward the back of the toy with your middle and ring fingers to adjust the power levels.
  • While the suction power is important, as a self proclaimed power-girl, I did not find the W100 lacking in suction to achieve an orgasm.  I do, however, find the ability to have the higher powered suction a nice perk!  and as I said to a customer last night, why not take advantage of the “improvements”… a little more power couldn’t hurt.  If the shorter style and placement of the power buttons work for you, why not engage in a little more power.
  • If you have a larger clitoris than “standard”, I would recommend the Womanizer Pro.  The ability to choose the size of the suction head is a plus.  It is also an interesting option for women with smaller clitoris, as if you are having trouble locating the most desirable spot, a larger head can offer broader options for placement.
  • Price sometimes can be a deciding factor, and it should be noted that the W100 is priced at $189 currently and the Womanizer Pro is $219.  That $30 may be a make it or break it.

Overall, I say, honestly, I don’t feel you’ll go wrong with either, unless there’s a sizing issue.  The Womanizer is a wonderful and effective “orgasm-creator”, and the feedback we’ve gotten from customers who’ve tried it say they love it.  For the most part, it’s quiet, and assists in giving a woman an orgasm in under a minute, or 1-3 minutes at most.  It’s really hard to argue with a beautifully designed, effective toy like that!

You can find Womanizer products at Trystology.com.

Stocking stuffers for him and her

It’s almost Christmas, and you are wondering what you can put in the stocking to light up your partner…

Here you go!

Who doesn’t like a little Chocolate Body Paint?  “The most passionate taste to penetrate the skin with the intensity of cocoa for provoking the most intense desires.” Bijoux Indescretes thought of everything… delicious flavor with a feather wand to draw on your partner!   Also available in Caramel, Strawberry and Frozen Yogurt!

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Chocolate Body Paint

Along the Edible Theme, Sliquid has a wonderful line of edible lubricants that are sure to please!  Strawberry Pomogrante Swirl is a favorite, but who doesn’t like the classic Green Apple, Cherry Vanilla, and Pina Colada!  Sliquid Naturals Swirl is a line of flavored and water based lubricants all of which are glycerin and paraben-free. Based on the original Naturals H20 water based lubricant, Swirl adds a bit of flavor and sweetness to mix things up.

Sliquid Swirl
Sliquid Swirl
Sliquid Swirl

And to add a little tingle to the edible side of stocking stuffers, we’ve got Nipple Nibblers!   If nipples could smile! Cool and creamy Nipple Nibblers will stimulate more than just your taste buds. Indulge in the smooth, silky richness on your lips or nipples. Watch your lover smile. Available in 7 flavors: Grape, Bubblegum, Buttercream, Strawberry, Raspberry, Watermelon, and Mandarin.

Nipple Nibblers

For him, we’ve got the funnest stocking stuffer!  Tenga Eggs are cute to simply place in the stocking, and fun for play together!  Each egg has a design on the outside, which is the same as the design on the inside of the egg.  Each egg comes with a little pouch of water based lube, and can be used solo, or with a partner.

Tenga Eggs
Tenga Eggs
Tenga Eggs
Tenga Eggs

Always fun, is a little naughty play!  Feather ticklers, and playful restraints by Bijoux Indescretes fit the bill!  Use this luxurious marabou feather tickler to discover new sensations as you tickle and trace along your partner’s body for a night of unforgettable pleasure.  The battle of seduction has begun! Prepare to fight skin to skin with Desir Metallique metal mesh handcuffs when on the battlefield. Easy-to-wear bracelets for any occasion, in private they become suggestive handcuffs for soft bondage games.

Bijoux Handcuffs
Feather tickler

And in EVERY stocking should be a bottle of Uberlube!!!  It doesn’t matter whether it’s a Good To Go portable Uberlube, or a 50ml or 100ml, no home is complete without a bottle of Uberlube!  What is Uberlube, you might ask?  It’s a massage oil/lubricant, that can be used for oh, so many things!  Not only does it have no scent, no taste, but it can be used for a massage, as a lubricant, on your hair to tame it, or under makeup for a smooth finish.  Once applied it leaves the skin feeling soft and powdery!  At Trystology, we like to say “don’t make love without it!”

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Uberlube To Go Travel

One last gift idea for her… Vesper by Crave!  You know  you want to give her jewelry, but you don’t want to give her the wrong idea!  Why not give her a beautiful necklace, that is also a VIBRATOR!  What woman wouldn’t LOVE that!  Not only would she be able to wear this in public with almost no one knowing she’s got a love tool around her neck, but it’s something you can play with… at any time!  Ranging from $79-149, In Silver, Rose Gold and Gold… This is one jewelry piece she will be proud to wear!

Crave Vesper Rose Gold Vibarator Necklace
Crave Vesper Silver Vibrator Necklace
Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace Gold

Whatever you decide you need for your stocking stuffer, the whole point is to have fun… Lots and lots of fun!  Check out all our stocking stuffers at www.trystology.com

SpareParts Tomboi II Boxer Brief Harness

By popular demand, SpareParts introduces the versatile Tomboi II.

Just this past August at the Ventura Pride, a customer came up to me in our booth and asked me “Are they here yet?!?  When is SpareParts doing boxer harnesses? I NEED one.”  I couldn’t have been more pleased to text her a picture from the trade show in September that we didn’t need to wait any longer!  For those of you who “don’t want to be caught without it,” there is the Tomboi, until now only an underwear style harness that is both comfortable and practical.  However, starting NOW, SpareParts has brought to market the new Tomboi II Boxer Harness!  It has GREAT stylings, comfortable fit, and they’ve thought of EVERYTHING.  With the bullet pockets, and double hole option, and packer ready, these new boxers are going to be practical for so many occasions!  I love the Black and Red and Purple with Black options in Nylon, but there will also be Rayon in all Black, which will be the equivalent of the Modal that is carried in the Tomboi regular brief line.  Take a peek here to see what’s here!

Tres and her team at SpareParts have created an incredible line that covers the bases.  What can I say?  Of all the harnesses out there, we have been so pleased to carry the SpareParts harnesses, with their quality and versatile options, you are certainly not going to be “caught without a spare”!  Whether you’re looking for a practical everyday-use harness, Joque or Theo are it, or a super sexy, feminine style harness, like the Sasha or Belle… where you can wear gartered stockings with it!  Wow!

Having seen these boxers on, they are not only really good looking as a pair of boxers, they are so dang practical!  Perfect for packing, or as a harness!  Pockets for bullets!  and OHHHH so comfortable!  In sizes from XS to 5X!  These boxers are truly amazing!

Check them out online at www.trystology.com

Recommended Sex Toys for #AnOrgasmADay

At Trystology, we encourage #AnOrgasmADay !

I think about it, and it’s kind of funny!  I promote #AnOrgasmADay in the shop, but I rarely talk about it outside my one-on-one discussions with my customers!  For someone who’s had a blog for almost 5 years, I think that’s pretty funny!  It’s like I’m keeping it as one of my best kept secrets!  REALLY!  I mean, if it’s the basis for one of my core beliefs in my business, why not talk about it!?!?  So here goes!  From this day forward, I’m going to remind you… it’s important to have an orgasm a day… and if you don’t have one, at least to strive for it!

#AnOrgasmADay

So what’s the basis of this belief, you might be asking.  Well, here’s the thing.  An orgasm gives you something you can’t get any other way – oxytocin, endorphins and immunoglobulin A!  And it’s FREE!  Not only does an orgasm make you feel good… it’s good for you.

Let’s look at all the benefits of an orgasm:

  • Stress reduction!  Oxytocin helps with stress, and leaves you feeling relaxed and safe!
  • Helps you sleep! That’s right, if you’re lying awake at 3 AM, have an orgasm! It’ll help you sleep!
  • Helps with headaches!  No more excuses about “I’ve got a headache”… we’ve got a cure for that!
  • Increases intimacy with your partner!  If you’re partnered, it’s sometimes difficult to connect through the challenges of a long relationship, but if you’re enjoying intimacy together, it’s difficult to be angry, and you’re most likely willing to work it out!
  • It resets you, and makes difficult situations more tolerable!  I always say that mother’s of small children, who don’t have a lot of time for sex and intimacy with their partners, NEED this most of all!  With an orgasm, you’re more likely to see the world in a whole different way!
  • And extends our lives!  My grandmother, Marion Downs, always quoted the Harvard Study on Aging, which stated that the more orgasms one had, the longer one might live, and it didn’t matter if it was with your partner, or by yourself!  She lived until she was almost 101! I think she knew what she was talking about!

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My Grandma, Marion Downs & I in 2014

Shut Up And Live! Marion DownsSo you can see there are MANY benefits to #AnOrgasmADay!

The challenge for many women is how to achieve this.  With most women it can take 20-40 minutes to have an orgasm!  There’s nothing shocking about that. It’s just the way we’re built!  I like to say that men are like microwaves and women are like crock pots.  Women just need a little simmering!  But what happens if we don’t have that kind of time every day?  Luckily for us, there are a few manufactures who are starting to make products that can help to turn women into microwaves, often making an orgasm possible in 1-3 minutes!  With that kind of “tool”, women can truly achieve #AnOrgasmADay !  Let’s take a look at a few:

Jimmyjane Form 2 Lux– This vibrator has been one of our top selling female toys.  With it’s unique shape, it’s great for nipple stimulation, or clitoral stimulation, and has varying speeds from a low rumble to strong vibration.  I like to tell women that they can take this vibrator into the shower… You need to shampoo your hair every other day or so.  Then you condition.  When you condition, you need to leave it on for 3-6 minutes usually.  With the Form 2 you’re able to have an orgasm in 1-3 minutes.  When you leave the shower, you’re whole perspective on the world is different!

Jimmyjane Form 2 LUX

Jimmyjane Form 2 LUX

Jimmyjane Form 2 Slate

Jimmyjane Form 2 Slate

Womanizer – This newly introduced toy from Germany is fast becoming a favorite, due to its Pleasure on Demand concept, and touchless air technology.  This is one of the only toys that is so confident about orgasm that they have a money back guarantee!  It’s also a bit addictive.  Once one is able to have orgasms this easy, it’s easy to see why we’re promoting an orgasm a day!

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Lelo Ina Wave – The Lelo Ina Wave is one of the few rabbit vibrators with “wave” technology.  It has an “arm” that moves up and down to simulate the “come hither” movement needed for the G-Spot, while having incredible vibrations… or no vibe at all!

Lelo Ina Wave Ocean Blue Lelo Ina Wave Purple Lelo Ina Wave Cerise

And lastly I’ll recommend the newest Wand Style toys that have for decades brought women to their knees…

Doxy – A powerful plug-in vibe with 9000RPM and variable speed, with pulsations.

Doxy Vibrator Massager

Magic Wand Rechargeable– The reinvented 1968 standby Hitatchi Wand, which now has a dense silicone head, 6300RPM, which feel somehow stronger than the Doxy, 4 power levels and 4 pulsations. The unique thing about this one is it’s rechargeable, and when it’s dead and you NEED it, it’s Plug-N-Play!  Crazy!

Magic Wand Rechargeable Vibrator MassagerAnd Last but not least, the Palm Power and Palm Power Rechargeable!  Strong Power, adjustable speed, and one connected, one cordless!

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Can’t go wrong with any of these!  For other incredible toys, check us out at www.trystology.com

And don’t forget #AnOrgasmADay !

Shiri Zinn Black Harness – US Exclusive!

Finally, The Shiri Zinn Harness in Black!

Ever since we opened the store, first as Kama Sutra Closet in 2009, now Trystology, we have carried Shiri Zinn’s incredibly soft Lambskin Harnesses!  With the delicate beading and adjustable style, are some of the most feminine harnesses available on the market!  I loved it when I was told by a vendor that these harnesses were the “heterosexual ‘wanna-be'” harnesses, as I have to admit, it’s probably true.  Though I have had many lesbian customers who love this harness! For truly durable, everyday harnesses, we sell the Spareparts harnesses… but for the women who want to feel soft and sexy and have that “rawr” saucy look, we have the Shiri Zinn harness. And one of the most amazing things is that whether you are a size “0” or “16” you can wear this harness!  You see, sexy has no size!

Shiri Zinn’s philosophy is that “it is only through quality that we can challenge prejudices and preconceived notions about sexuality. [She] intend to challenge these prejudices and uncover unexpected glamour in this marketplace through the medium of design.” Thus we have been blessed with some of her most amazing works.  The Red and Pink Harnesses and Ceramic Dildos have survived the years, and have become some of our most  unique and popular items in the store.
Shiri Zinn harness pink front Shiri Zinn harness pink back Shiri Zinn harness red front Shiri Zinn harness red back

Every now and then over the years, a customer would come in and ask, “Can I get this in Black?”  I’d respond with “Wouldn’t that be amazing!  I’ll see…” and finally, Shiri and I were able to make this happen!  Coming in the Fall 2015, we will be receiving this amazing harness in BLACK!  The thing for me is that there are no other harnesses out on the market that are made in as soft a leather, as feminine a style and as darn sexy as this Shiri Zinn harness… and now in Black!  It will soon become part of any worthy lingerie collection, because this harness could be considered one of the most sexy crotchless panties available.  Have you seen the way that it frames the bottom?  It will also be one of the most sought after harnesses for partner play.

Shiri Zinn harness black
Shiri Zinn harness beads front
Shiri Zinn harness black front

Whether it’s worn with Mimi Crystal Pasties, Bijoux Indescretes Reusable Pasties and Kixie’s thigh high stockings, or some amazing lingerie as an accent, this Shiri Zinn Harness in Black is sure to be a show stopper!  We are proud to say that we have the US Exclusive on selling this unique harness.  It will be available in Mid-October to Early November, just in time for the holidays!

You can Reserve your Shiri Zinn Black Harness for $179 at www.trystology.com.  They’ll be here before you know it!

Womanizer Sex Toy with Pleasure Air Technology

Womanizer- A terrible name for an AMAZING Sex Toy!

Okay, Ryan, you win!

When I met with Ryan and Frank today at the Womanizer sex toy booth, I was more than slightly skeptical!  Here they had a sex toy that they said “GUARANTEED” a woman an orgasm! REALLY!  Mind you, there were two men in the booth, neither with a clitoris, telling me that this Womanizer sex toy would give any woman an orgasm in less than a minute. (With, of course, the disclaimer that every woman is different.)

They quoted stats about this % of women enjoyed it, and that % of women achieved an orgasm. Stats about how it’s the #1 sex toy in the US.  #1 selling sex toy with my competitors.  #1 selling sex toy for women in Europe since it launched just over a year ago.

These were men who were in the business to sell me something.  Now, these men are professionals I respect, but count me a skeptic if I don’t think men can understand a woman’s body, and can be damn good at quoting stats!  (Truth?!?)

Okay, so here is what I’m looking at:

The Womanizer (terrible name for a product in the US, but I’m told to “get over it, it works!”) is a “touchless stimulation” toy, that claims to deliver “fast and often multiple orgasms on demand”.  “100% Pleasure Everytime” they claim. REALLY!?!? It’s a small hand held device, that’s rechargeable but shouldn’t be put near/in water. When you place the small silicone node on the palm of your hand, it barely registers the suction it claims to produce these amazing orgasms from.  With a push of the jeweled button, you are introduced to 4 other sensations that create a slightly stronger suction with each press.  At this point, I’m still not sure if that would do the trick, but I’m game.

Each of the toys are pretty in their own right.  Turqouise, Black w/leopard, Pink/Purple w/leopard, Rose limited edition, Heart/wings limited edition, and the amazing Swarovski crystal elements versions!  OMG… beautiful!

Womanizer sex toy vibrator black/leopard
Womanizer sex toy vibrator red
Womanizer sex toy vibrator pink leopard
Womanizer sex toy vibrator blue
Womanizer sex toy vibrator leopard deluxe
Womanizer sex toy vibrator crystal-dreams
Womanizer sex toy vibrator crystal

As I’ve said, I was quite skeptical.  I’ve had amazing toys that were able to give a woman an orgasm in 1-3 min before, but this idea of touchless, quiet, suction-oriented toy? I wasn’t sure.

After trying the Womanizer sex toy, all I can say is … OMG!  and REALLY!!!!  Yes, really!

I can’t explain it, except to say it reminds me of suction from a lover’s mouth during oral sex.  That sort of suction you don’t want to end, at least not until you’ve achieved an orgasm, which this toy seems to assist with quite nicely.  While I was told that most women don’t go past the third speed while using it, I took it as a challenge to start much higher, then was ever so grateful for the quick button that took it back down to the first level with a touch of the button.

So yes, we’ll be carrying the Womanizer sex toy. (I may just end up calling it the “Kiss Me There” Suction Vibrator!) But you can get yours at Trystology.com  It’s that good.

We-Vibe Classic Vibrator

We-Vibe Classic: The best couple’s vibrator just got better!

The #1 selling couple’s sex toy just got better and it’s here and available!  If you’re one of those careful shoppers who’ve been sitting on the sidelines, waiting to decide whether this is the right toy for you and your partner, the waiting is over.  The time is now.

So what’s the big deal?  Sex toys are sex toys, right?  Well, not really!

The We-Vibe vibrator created a sensation when it was introduced in 2008.  As of the only products available on the market at the time that was hands free, and fit between the bodies, and was a “shared” sensation, it did more for couples play than any other product out there.  Over the years, We-Vibe has evolved and added remote controls, which took “play” outside the bedroom.  Clearly, even outside the bedroom, it was as fun for “partner-play” as inside, as one partner inevitably enjoys “buzzing” the other in the middle of a dinner party for example!

We-Vibe Classic Couples Vibrator
We-Vibe Classic Couples Vibrator
We-Vibe Classic Package
We-Vibe Classic Package

With the evolution of the We-Vibe came the We-Vibe 4, which offered a tighter fit.  However in doing so, it’s more rigid style inhibited the “outside the bedroom” play, due to comfort.  The addition of the Bluetooth feature with the We-Vibe 4 Plus, was enticing.  But for those who wanted to experiment with “out to dinner” play, or “Jacuzzi play”, it was uncomfortable to walk with.  So we were pleased when we went to market in July to find out that We-Vibe was in fact not doing away with the We-Vibe 3, but re-engineering it as the We-Vibe Classic!  This new toy is now coated in a soft, suede-like finish.  And it not only has a remote control, but is Bluetooth enabled!  That’s right, Bluetooth enabled!

We-Vibe Classic Bluetooth Enabled Remote Controlled Couples Vibrator
We-Vibe Classic Bluetooth Enabled Remote Controlled Couples Vibrator

What does that mean for you?  That means that you can not only use the We-Vibe Classic for lovemaking, and for bedroom play with your partner, you can also use it when your partner travels away for work!  How?  With the We-Connect App, you are able to do things with a We-Vibe that you were never able to do before!  Separating out the internal and external stimulation at different power level?  We got that!  Ten sensations aren’t enough for you? Create your own vibe!  Partner in Australia?  Invite them to manage your vibe!  Yup, we got that! From ANYWHERE in the world that has internet!  Really!

Like it’s We-Vibe predecessors, the We-Vibe 3 Classic is waterproof, rechargeable and quiet.  And it still comes in it’s discrete charging case.  But it truly has come a long way since its launch in 2008 and now it is the right playful toy for most couples!  And I believe the price is right!  At $149 at launch time, with the remote and Bluetooth, the We-Vibe 3 Classic is one of the best priced, quality couple’s sex toys available today.

Get your We-Vibe Classic at www.Trystology.com

Crave Flex Vibrator & Duet Flex Vibrator

One of the best boutique sex toy brands improves with Crave Flex Vibrator.


Crave is one of the best boutique sex toy brands available today.  I have enjoyed watching Ti and Michael grow their wonderful brand since their first crowdfunding efforts for the Crave Duet.  Based out of San Francisco, they have developed a brand that exemplifies quality.  Whether you’re looking at the cuffs, vibrator necklace, one of the vibrators like Duet, Solo, Wink, or one of the fabulous Vesper necklaces, they are all solid works of art, and made of only top quality materials using the most discrete designs.

Crave Duet VibratorCrave Solo Vibrator

Crave Wink VibratorCrave Vesper Necklace Vibrator

And now we meet the Crave Flex Vibrator and Crave Flex Duet Vibrator!  Built out of high grade silicone, these two discreet vibrators offer slimline styles with effective vibration.  Each has 4 power levels and 4 sensation modes; one solid and 3 pulsations.  They are also waterproof, rechargeable and quiet!

Crave Flex Vibrator BlackCrave Flex Vibrator BlueCrave Flex Vibrator PinkThe Crave Flex Vibrator is one of the first to be so petite, and yet so powerful!  It’s so slim that it fits easily between the bodies during lovemaking, and is amazing for clitoral stimulation or for use as a teasing toy. The Crave Flex Vibrator comes with a sleeve for storage in a purse or travel case and is waterproof, rechargeable… in your computer’s USB port no less!  It’s quiet too, crazy quiet!  No more “the neighbors might hear my toy” with this one!  The only one the neighbors might hear is YOU!

Crave Duet Flex Vibrator Black Crave Duet Flex Vibrator Pink Crave Duet Flex Vibrator BlueThe Crave Duet Flex Vibrator carries on the tradition of the Crave Duet in offering dual stimulation for clitoral stimulation for women, or nipple stimulation for men or women.  The two nodes, which are made of silicone, are firm and yet flexible, as the name Flex suggests.  This is an awesome vibrator for travel, and easy to charge with the USB charger in your computer or a USB phone charger.  Being waterproof, it offers many opportunities for play.  I love how Crave suggests that this product is “virtually silent” because it truly is!

One of the most amazing things is the price point of these products.  Being the entry point for high quality silicone sex toys is fairly high, we are so pleased that these vibrators are being offered at $89 for the Flex and $109 for the Flex Duet!

These wonderful Crave toys can be found at Trystology.com

Vibratex Butterfly Vibrator & Thunder Cloud Vibrator

Light up your bedroom disco-style with Vibratex Butterfly Vibrator

As long as I’ve been in the business, Vibratex has been a classic brand that offers the original styles and shapes for vibrators!  Some of my favorite offerings have always been the light-up rainbow vibrators, specifically the Vibratex Butterfly vibrator and the Vibratex Thunder Cloud!

I had a chance to see them again this past week at the ANME Tradeshow in Burbank, and it reminded me how much I LOVE them!  While we carry some of the newest, hottest vibrators available today (think Ina Wave, We-Vibe 4 Plus, and Je Joue Nuo) we still carry some of the classics, like the Thundercloud and Butterfly!

Vibratex Butterfly Vibrator
Vibratex Thunder Cloud

The Vibratex Butterfly vibrator has been redesigned into Sugar Pop, however it’s nice to remember that the original Butterfly has rotating beads, which some women may prefer over the beaded discs of Sugar Pop.  Sugar Pop also does not have our fun rainbow lights, reminiscent of the Disco!  And as Eddie from Vibratex states, the lighted rainbow can help men find their way, especially in the dark!  He makes me laugh!  Butterfly, as well as Sugar Pop, are both made out of elastomer and are battery operated, NOT Waterproof, and not so quiet, but their price point can be more desirable than the quieter, rechargeable toys!  The Vibratex Butterfly vibrator measures 4.5″ insertable length and 1-3/4″ in diameter.

For those who want MORE, the Vibratex Thunder Cloud vibrator offers a soft elastomer exterior with quite a bit of girth!  I’ll never forget the first time I met Thunder Cloud!  It was my first trade show and there I was in the Vibratex booth smiling and watching with amazement this substantial toy go round and round with lights going off!  My husband walked up to me and asked “Do you want that?”… to which I replied… “It makes me laugh!”   However, while Thunder Cloud is cute, with it’s softness and rainbow colors, it is no laughing matter.  It’s quite the hefty rabbit style vibrator, with 2-1/2″ diameter, and 5″ insertable length!

Come over and rock your disco vibe at Trystology!