Best Prostate Massage Tools

Prostate Massage Tools that Vibrate!

We are entering a new world. One that is more accepting of anal play for men! Yeah! Hopefully the day of people (including Doctors, YIKES!) alluding to men who like prostate stimulation, in any form, must be gay, are over! Anyone more open minded, or in the know, understands that prostate stimulation, is just that… stimulating! And for the most part, the only way to stimulate the prostate is through the anus.

You may not be aware that the male prostate is very similar in many ways to the female G-Spot, thus why it is often referred to as the male G-Spot, or the P-Spot. Using the same concept of the 1-3 inches up on the upper wall concept for females, the male prostate is 1-3 inches in on the upper wall in men. The best way to know what the direction it is, you would point the bulbous point or curve of any toy or finger toward the testicles and perineum.

Aneros Helix SYN

Okay, so how exactly can we achieve a good prostate massage? Generally any toy that can be used for a G-Spot, can be used for the prostate… with one MAJOR rule… nothing is inserted into the anus that doesn’t have a flange. Flange = Stopper. So we look at prostate massage tools that are specifically designed for the anus/prostate, like the Aneros Helix Syn, which is one of our most requested toys. With its specially designed shape, and the silicone coating, it is one of the most comfortable and effective prostate massage tools. You can also see that it has light pressure on the perineum, with the black curve with red dot, and a red handle that is great for giving the massage.

So, what’s the new thing in prostate massage? Vibration!!! And there are a few toys that we really like that are awesome for vibrating the prostate. The Lux 3 and the Black Pearl.

The Lux 3 is a sleek look made of high grade silicone, designed perfectly to hit the prostate. It has a variable speed vibration, so the longer you hold the button, the higher the vibration. The vibration carries through the toy, however it is focused on the Perineum, so as not to over stimulate the prostate. It is waterproof, rechargeable and quiet.

Lux 3 Prostate Massager

The Vibratex Black Pearl is a new prostate massage tool with strong vibration, and a button that when pressed shifts from one sensation to another. It is fairly straight, however has a button at the tip that protrudes that should hit the prostate. This particular prostate massage tool vibrates at the tip, unlike the Lux 3, so the stimulation at the prostate can be very strong. Due to its strong vibration, women might be tempted to use it, so it can also be used for G-spot play for women. It is silicone, as is the Lux 3, and is easy to clean, because it’s non porous. Being waterproof, it can also be boiled for cleaning, if so desired.

Black Pearl Prostate Massager

Prostate massage can be an extremely enjoyable experience for men, so it’s wonderful to see that our society, for the most part, is opening up this incredible experience for men to use as a technique during foreplay, solo play, or as a tool to be used during lovemaking. The statistics speak for themselves.. orgasms 3-10 times stronger than traditional orgasms.

You can find a selection of male prostate toys at www.trystology.com

Meet the New Lelo Ina Wave

Sexual Technology at its best! Lelo Ina Wave OMG!!

Lelo Ina Wave raises the bar for sex toys again! What amazing strides we have made in sexual technology in the past few years. We have gone from seeing a vibe that could sync with your music, the Ohmibod Club Vibe and Freestyle, to wireless remote controlled toys like the We-Vibe 3 and We-Vibe 4…. to Bluetooth enabled toys like the Bluemotion Nex/1 and We-Vibe. We have also seen the introduction of thrusting toys, like the Fun Factory Drei . One of our favorites was the Sasi, by Je Joue, which imitated oral sex! Who new a toy could do that?! However, I don’t think anything to date has matched the new “Wave” technology of the Lelo Ina Wave for simulating sexual interaction and G-Spot Play!

So here’s the thing, the Lelo Ina 2 has always been a favorite of mine, and of the “Power Girls” who visit the shop. What’s a “Power Girl”? She’s a woman who enjoys strong vibration power and sensation in a toy to achieve an orgasm. There are not many sex toys that qualify as quality “power tools”, and that will be another post altogether, however the Lelo Ina 2 is one of those toys that clamps onto the clitoris, and doesn’t let go. It’s not for the faint of heart. I like to say that it’s assertive. When using the Ina, there is constant attention and vibration on the clitoris, which can go from lower vibration to quite strong. The Lelo Ina 2 is also waterproof, rechargeable and quite.

So why do I tell you all this about the Ina 2? Well the Lelo Ina Wave is all that the Lelo Ina 2 is, and MORE! I like to say that you get two sex toys in one, for just $40 more! With this incarnation, they have opened the “rabbit” opening slightly, allowing for less of a “clamp” sensation on the clitoris. This allows for a wider audience of interest, as the constant, strong attention wasn’t for everyone… Now don’t get me wrong, there is still assertive attention on the clitoris, but slightly more gentle.

Lelo Ina Wave, Purple

Lelo Ina Wave, Ocean Blue

Lelo Ina Wave, Cerise

And then there’s the WAVE! This is where I say you get two toys in one with the Lelo Ina Wave! Not only do you get an amazing Lelo Ina 2, that fully functions just as the Ina always has, but you get the WAVE!

The WAVE is the “come hither” movement that we have always been taught to achieve a G-Spot orgasm. It gently rocks back and forth, while the “rabbit” arm is vibrating at the chosen speed and sensation. The amazing thing about it is that while it has all the great sensations of the Ina 2, it also has a non-vibration mode, which I found interesting. There are definitely G-Spot educators who advocate against vibrating the G-Spot for female ejaculation and G-Spot Play, however, I’m not one of them!

Lelo Ina Wave

Lelo Ina Wave Cerise

Lelo Ina Wave Ocean Blue

As anyone familiar with toys knows, a great toy becomes a part of the “family”. They become trusted friends, and are there for you when you need them! The Lelo Ina Wave might just become your best friend! It’s a great toy to use solo, and it’s a great toy to use with a partner. And who doesn’t love the new colors! Lelo Ina Wave at Trystology.

Alternatives to Eroscillator- Waterproof, Cordless

“What Can I Get Instead of the Eroscillator?”

I received two calls this week from customers who LOVE their Eroscillator, but needed an alternative 1) because they needed something waterproof that they could use in a hot tub and 2) because they were looking for something less cumbersome, and perhaps a little more powerful. It’s a bit challenging because the Eroscillator oscillates vs. vibrates. it’s a difficult toy to compare and replace.

Eroscillator Top Deluxe Kit

That said, my customers had dilemmas, so I set out to help!

My first customer needed a waterproof alternative to Eroscillator for use in the hot tub. Here are a few different angles we looked at:

In looking at an Eroscillator substitution, it would be good to know whether the customer likes the “handle” part of the Eroscillator, or the sensation. If it’s the sensation, I’d recommend the Jimmyjane Form 2, Crave Duet or Crave Solo. If it’s the handle, I’d go with Lelo Gigi or Lelo Mona.

First and foremost I recommended the Jimmyjane Form 2. It is our #1 selling female toy due to its small size, the two prong stimulation, and its unique vibration. It has a nice rumble versus a finer vibration or heavier vibration. This would be my first recommendation for an Eroscillator replacement for a hot tub, especially for waterproof play. It has a 3 year warranty and is waterproof rechargeable and quiet. $145

Jimmyjane Form 2, Slate

A close second Eroscillator alternative would be the Crave Duet or Solo. With the soft silicone, it’s a pretty cool toy that’s discrete, waterproof, has multiple sensations, and is travel friendly. The difference between the two is that the Duet has two prongs, for nipple or clitoral stimulation, as well as a Turbo button for higher power. The Solo is one solid flat shape, and no turbo, but definitely a stronger than average sensation. Both are waterproof, USB rechargeable and quiet.

crave duet crave solo vibrator

For the user who likes the handle as an aspect of the toy, Lelo Gigi is a versatile g-spot and clitoral toy. It doesn’t have a strong vibration, so if she’s into the gentle vibration, she may like this one. With its flat head and handle, it is a popular toy. The Lelo Gigi 2 is waterproof and has 8 sensations.

Lelo Gigi in Deep Rose

The Lelo Mona 2 is also a great g-spot and clitoral toy. It has stronger vibration than the Gigi and has more girth. For internal stimulation, and stronger, more pinpoint stimulation than the Gigi, Mona 2 is another great alternative to Eroscillator for waterproof play.

Lelo Mona 2 in Cerise

A more budget-friendly waterproof alternative to Eroscillator is the We-Vibe Tango, one of the most powerful mini toys we carry. It is hard plastic, so I’m not sure it would be comparable, as some people find the strong vibration and the hard plastic to be numbing. However, it is waterproof, rechargeable and has 8 sensations… and runs $80.

We-Vibe Tango in Blue

One final suggestion I have for waterproof alternatives to the Eroscillator is my #2 selling couples set. it consists of a Leaf Life and a massage oil candle. The Leaf Life is silicone, waterproof and has a variable sensation that goes from low to high, depending on the pressure/setting you set it on. It’s a sweet tool for clitoral stimulation and nipple stimulation, but it’s also an amazing massage tool, and can be used on him or her. Leaf Life runs $95 and the candles run $30.

Leaf Life package with USB charger

Another Eroscillator alternative recommendation I have is for the Doxy. While it is not “less cumbersome,” it is one of the most powerful toys on the market. Because I knew that this customer is one of the original “Plug In” power girls, this toy immediately came to mind. So if you like a lot of vibration, Doxy is one of the best “power girl” toys on the market. With 9000 RPM, it’s probably the strongest on the market.

doxy

(See a complete Doxy vibrator review by Joan Price here.)

As you can see, it’s not an easy answer to a simple question “What can I get instead of the Eroscillator?” There are so many factors involved, such as waterproof, more or less power, do you like the handle, and shape… Hopefully, we have helped to answer some of your questions. If you have any further questions, please don’t hesitate to write to us at support@trystology.com or give us a call at 888-801-8952. We are available to answer any questions.

Lelo Pino Vibrating Men’s Ring

Lelo Pino Review

With the introduction of the Lelo Pino men’s vibrating ring, we see a whole new take on the shape, style and usage of a ring during lovemaking. Lelo Pino is touted as “designed exclusively for bankers.” An interesting niche to target. That must be why the Lelo Pino comes with a money clip and cuff links. Most everyday guys don’t usually wear cuff links!

Lelo Pino Vibrating Mens Ring Package

So here’s the thing. If you’re able to look beyond the narrow target they are shooting for, because, let’s face it, everyone, whether you’re a teacher, artist, banker or business owner… wants great sex, I think Lelo may have come up with a very intriguing product! Up close and personal, it’s a bit intimidating. It is quite a bit larger than its predecessor, the Lelo Tor 2, or the Lelo Oden 2. And the shape is like none we’ve ever seen…

Lelo Pino Mens Vibrating Ring in Black

Do you see what I mean? With the pointed tip, the curved space for cupping, and then the nodule at the base, before the ring, it has a bit of an intimidating presence. But fear not, the Lelo Pino is truly designed with the experience in mind. It is made out of platinum grade silicone, which is velvety soft. Both the lower and upper “points” are in fact hollow and collapsible, designed for gentle stimulation, and are conductors, transmitting the vibration wherever it might be desired. The ring itself is firm, while being soft and flexible enough to stretch for additional girth.

Besides being waterproof, rechargeable and quiet, as most Lelo toys are, one of the key features is the 10 vibration patterns, which are easily changed with the plus button on the side (seen above). One feature I really like is that if the + button and the – button are pressed simultaneously, the Pino shuts off instantaneously! That is so perfect, as very few toys have a quick off switch… and here’s the thing… we all need the vibration to stop quickly at times!

Here are a couple of suggestions on how the Lelo Pino can be used. I always like to say that “There are no rules for how to use sex toys.” These are just ideas. You can get creative!

Lelo Pino missionary position

Lelo Pino Rear Entry Positioning

As you can see, there are many intriguing things to note and explore about the Lelo Pino men’s vibrating ring! Get one now at Trystology.com

Which Vibrator Should I Get?

“What vibrator would you recommend?”

By Roylin Downs-

I get that question a lot! “What’s the Best Vibrator…?” Because there isn’t one vibrator that solves every need and desire, my next question is always…”For what…?”

Today I got an email from a customer asking what the best couples toy was, and best solo play vibrator, for her, external. Here’s the advice I usually give in the store about finding the right vibrator, and what I shared with her:

This is a list of the best vibrators we have for the following purposes:

Partner Play:
#1 We-Vibe. The We-Vibe is a vibrator a woman can wear during lovemaking, and both partners share in the vibrations. It is waterproof, remote controlled, with multiple sensations, and is quiet. It can also be used for foreplay, solo play and outside the bedroom, meaning you can wear it out to dinner, and then hand your partner the remote control to your vibrator!

Choosing which:
The We-vibe 3 vibrator is more flexible, but looser. It’s more comfortable for wearing outside the bedroom, but some women find it moves around, so it’s not a perfect fit for all.

The We-Vibe 4 vibrator is a tighter fit, which can be more stationary when lovemaking. It’s really good for solo play, and lovemaking, if the fit is right. This vibrator is very popular right now because the vibrational pattern and texture is different from the We-vibe 3. It’s not as comfortable for outside the bedroom/walking around. We-Vibe 4 Plus is the Bluetooth enabled version, so if you want the ability to manage the vibrator remotely from anywhere in the world, you should get this vibrator.

The We-Vibe Vibrator you choose will depend on how you want to use it.

#2 Our second best couples toy vibrator is a combination of a vibrating tool and a massage oil candle. We recommend either the Jimmyjane Form 3 vibrator or the Leaf Life vibrator for the massage tool, and a L’Esperanza della Luce for the massage oil candle. The candle oil can be poured on the body while the candle is burning and it won’t burn, it’s just pleasantly warm. It’s a very sensual experience, and we believe touch is the most basic sense of intimacy. Both tools are discrete and non-threatening to couples, especially if its their first toy. The reason you may choose one vibrator over the other is that when you receive or give a massage you may like pressure (Leaf Life) or a more soft touch (Form 3). The Jimmyjane Form 3 vibrator also has pulsations, while the Leaf Life vibrator has low to high vibrations. Either toy can be used for massage, teasing, and on the partner, him or her, anywhere on the body.

#3 Would be either Fixsation, which is a vibrating crotchless panty, or the Lux 4 / 4+ Vibrating ring. Depending on if he’s willing to wear a ring, or if she wants constant vibration, most couples choose between these two. The Fixsation is rechargeable, but not waterproof, and has multiple sensations. The Lux 4 is waterproof, rechargeable and has Low to High vibrations, and comes in a smaller and fuller size vibrating ring.

Solo Play :

#1 External toy for women is the Jimmyjane Form 2 vibrator. This toy is “tooth” shaped and is waterproof, rechargeable and quiet. It’s got low to very high vibration, and has 4 variations in pulsations. It’s really great for women who want a lot of vibration, though it does have a nice low rumble as well. The new Jimmyjane Form 2 Lux version is especially good for my “power girls”, who favor a strong Hitachi Wand style vibrator, but want something they can travel with, or that’s discrete, not bulky… and quiet!

#2 A Close second is the Crave Duet or Solo– This vibrator is discrete, and charges from your computer. It’s waterproof and has 4 power levels and 4 pulsations. Depending if you’d like to have the two prong style, or more a flat surface, which could be used for massage or partner play, is usually why people choose one over the other. Also, the Duet vibrator has a Turbo mode, so “power girls” like to have this one due to its ease of travel and extra strong vibration.

#3 Leaf Life. While we recommend this for couples play, it’s a great pinpoint stimulator for women as well. Low to high vibration, and waterproof and rechargeable, as well as being super discrete.

#4 Lelo Mona Sometimes women want external stimulation, however they want a toy that will have a handle, so that they can reach the clitoris even from a distance, like during some positions that might require that, like doggie style. The Lelo Mona vibrator is an awesome G-Spot toy and has a number of power levels and 8 sensations, but it’s also a great clitoral vibrator, for external stimulation. It’s waterproof, rechargeable and quiet.

I promote an orgasm a day, so any of these tools will help you achieve that. The reason being, you can use them in the shower… as you shower most days, you wash your hair, condition… wait a few minutes while the conditioner sets… (this is when you can give yourself an orgasm in minutes with one of the above tools) and rinse and go… 😉 The whole world looks different after that!

Hope that helps!

Roylin Downs is the owner and founder of Trystology. Read more about her at roylin.trystology.com.

Doxy Vibrator Review | Joan Price

Joan Price is a trusted resource for all of us here at Trystology. So we sent her the new Doxy Vibrator to see what she thinks. Here’s what she had to say…

By Joan Price-

When Roylin Downs, owner of Trystology, told me that I had to try the Doxy Wand, I believed her. She knows my preference for intense vibrators, even if that means that they’re heavy and need to be plugged in.

Oh my. I wouldn’t have imagined that a vibrator this strong existed. I don’t even need to take it to the highest power setting to send me spinning into space. Even the low settings are strong and they’re rumbly rather than buzzy. If you cycle from the lowest to the highest setting, it sounds like a plane taking off.

doxy vibrator

Doxy vs length of my arm.
Be aware that when you first turn it on, it doesn’t start at the lowest setting, but at higher than mid-point. From there, use the “+” or “-” to turn it up or down. There’s also a pulse setting activated by holding down the power button for two seconds, then releasing, but I have to admit that I didn’t bother with that.

What can I say? It works hard, and it works quickly, even for this almost 71-year-old, slow-burning woman.

I generally prefer vibrators that are easy on arthritic wrists — this one is not. It’s heavy, it’s huge, and I would be in pain from trying to hold it for any length of time. However, that’s irrelevant, because it works so fast that my wrist barely notices. Yes, it’s that good.

“But how does it compare to the Magic Wand?” you’re asking. It’s bigger. (“Bigger?! No way!” Yes, bigger.) And heavier. The cord is longer. All those sound bad, but it’s not bad because all that size is necessary for the power it delivers.

As far as intensity goes, the Doxy feels stronger, but it may just seem that way because the head is larger and covers more territory.

I also like Doxy’s head more than the Magic Wand’s because Doxy is more cushy. Strong and soft are a great combination.

The head is made of medical grade PVC, according to the tiny, mini-font instruction booklet. I didn’t know that PVC plastic can be medical-grade, but I looked it up, and it’s phthalate-free and used for things like oxygen bags, drainage bags, and medical tubing. I know that doesn’t sound very sexy except to my fellow sex geeks who get excited at learning about sex toys made of body-safe materials.

You can use water-based or silicone-based lubricants with Doxy, but not oil-based lubes.

No pouch included, which is shameful. An expensive sex toy should always come with its own pouch, especially since you’re not likely to have anything around large enough to store it in. Maybe a knee-high sock, if you happen to have a spare. Doxy comes in a cardboard box that’s even more enormous than it requires — not the best storage solution unless you have a large, empty drawer.

The mini-instruction booklet has all the requisite warnings — don’t use under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or on inflamed skin, or if pregnant, or in water, etc. The warning that makes no sense to me is this: “Do not use… if you are under the age of 16.” Why the heck not? I wish I had owned this vibrator when I was 15!

Thank you, Roylin and Trystology, for sending me the Doxy Wand, highly recommended for all of us who need extra power in our sex toys and have room in our drawer for a 15-inch-long vibrator!

Doxy is available at Trystology.com.

This review was originally published on Joan Price’s blog about sex and aging, http://www.NakedAtOurAge.com, where you can find valuable senior sex news, views, and reviews.

Joan Price is an advocate for ageless sexuality and author of Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex and Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty. Learn more at http://joanprice.com/

New Jimmyjane Iconic Rabbit 2

Kick it up a notch with the Iconic Rabbit 2 by Jimmyjane!

Not since “Sex in the City’s” Rabbit Habit episode has a the opportunity for pleasure been so sought after! The “new and improved” Jimmyjane Iconic Rabbit 2 takes the Rabbit Habit to the next level!!!

BAMMM!!! Kick it up a notch!!!

While the original was battery operated, this Rabbit is rechargeable! The Rabbit Habit had speed levels… slow to fast… the Iconic Rabbit 2 has 7 vibrational patterns, including 3 power levels, 3 vibrational patterns, and one escalating mode! It’s subtle, non phallic look, and smooth silicone shape make it so appealing!

And it’s WATERPROOF!

jimmyjane iconic-rabbit-2-vibrator

We had an opportunity to speak with Jimmyjane’s Sex Educator, Meredith Davis, at the AMNE trade show in July 2014, and this is what we discovered.

And as you can see… YUMMY! Great vibration, quiet… rechargeable and waterproof. What more can a girl want!

You can get your very own Jimmyjane Iconic Rabbit 2 at www.trystology.com

Hawthorne Lifestyle Sex Swings

Hawthorne Lifestyle Sex Swings are the BEST!

We are so jazzed to say that we are finally getting the Hawthorne Lifestyle Swings back in stock!!! A few years back, a customer asked us to research sex swings because the options that she had found were just not that great. Knowing that we research and only provide the best products, she trusted our advice… and we found the Hawthorne Lifestyle Swings out of the UK! These swings are solid, when installed properly, and as the manufacture states, can hold ” a small elephant”… which luckily most of us don’t even come close to being. They are completely adjustable, and can be used in so many ways! We brought these swings in, and had them hanging in the store, as well as sold them online. They sold out…

Then, we had a 2 year lull in being able to get them… and now THEY’RE BACK!

Here’s a sneak peek at the swing, and how you could use it! They’re pricy… we won’t lie, but WELL worth the investment. They are a solid piece of equipment you won’t want to be without!

Hawthorne Lifestyle Swing in Black

Hawthorne Lifestyle Swing in Red & Black

Now, doesn’t that look like a whole lot of fun? Whether you’re a him or her or us, it’s fun to get creative with this incredible piece of equipment!

Hawthorne Lifestyle Swings can be purchased at www.trystology.com

Doxy Vibrator Massager Review

Doxy Vibrator… the NEW Go-To Powerful Plug-in!

I was recently introduced to the Doxy and I must admit, I wasn’t quite sure. While I’m a “self-proclaimed power-girl”, I favor the Jimmyjane Form 2 to the Hitatchi Magic Wand. I know that may be heresy in this industry, but the lack of vibrational control, and the cord, in addition to the bulbous head made the Hitachi unattractive to me. Crazy, right?

So, being open minded on new experiences, I went home with the Doxy, ready to see what this new, ginormous gadget was all about. While the size can be intimidating… the toy itself was easy to use, and quite comfortable to maneuver. I really liked the adjustable controls, and soft head.

While my husband says that it sounded like a Cessna on takeoff, when you get the massager to “cruising altitude”, the Doxy was fun, playful, and yes… quite powerful! I must admit, that though it was large and bulbous, I found excuses to try it over and over again, and in truth am looking forward to playing with it… again and again!

Doxy Vibrator

I highly recommend the Doxy to all “power girls”! and much like one of the best reviews I’ve seen on the Doxy, on Ohjoysextoy.com …. those Hitachi fans might be writing “Dear John” letters to their wands! For me, I’ll gladly share the stage with my fav, the Jimmyjane Form 2! No need to give up one over the other… it’s their difference that we’ll celebrate, right?!?!

The Doxy can be purchased in White or in Black at www.trystology.com

Sexy Halloween Lingerie Outfits

Halloween is almost here…

And Fetish designer Patrice Catanzaro does not disappoint with his new sexy Halloween Collection from France! Trystology has brought in three styles, two masks and a claw glove, to offer some new and exciting opportunities to shine this festive All Hallows Eve!

First we have Sakura, a wetlook dress and stocking set, which is sure to delight!

Miiki is another hot wetlook hotpant style costume which is versatile for any time of year! It is paired with a sexy cat-style mask which features the rhinestone accents that highlight the two way zipper – front to back and back to front! These items are offered as a set, or priced separately.

Lastly, All Hallows Eve would not be the same without a “Day of the Dead” Skull style costume. This fabric and Wetlook Skull Dress and Mask set are perfectly highlighted with the Wetlook Claw Gloves!

We will have fun with these all year long! These items can be purchased at www.trystology.com

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